Buying Lingerie as a Gift

There is something about lingerie that makes it capable of exciting both women and men alike. Perhaps it's the way lingerie accentuates the feminine curves of a woman's body. Or perhaps it's the playful look of a revealing undergarment, the excitement that comes with the expectation of undressing a woman, or see her undress. With men buying women lingerie as a gift, on average three types a year the question has to be, when the moment comes to choose what types of lingerie should you be looking for?



Lingerie tells your girlfriend or spouse that you have a desire to be intimate with them and see them in something that makes them look their sexiest. This gives lingerie a powerful ability to set a romantic encounter in motion. Women who look sexy also feel sexy, and the right lingerie can help make your loved one feel her best. Needless to say, men also benefit from the way their loved one looks in sexy, romantic lingerie, which why perhaps lingerie as a gift is the one gift that lives up to the sophist dictum of “The gift honours the giver”.

Shopping for lingerie of course presents guys with a dilemma: while we are admirably suited to earning enough money and paying for an expensive set of sexy lingerie, we are a little less adept at entering a department store and spending hours looking through frilly lingerie displays trying to make the right choice in terms of style and size. This is where we come in the picture. Discreetly packaged, lingerie bought online presents none of the image problems a traditional shop has. Check out tips for sizes, look at all our different online guides for style, fabric and choice and then click and purchase. It really is that simple.

Cleavage at it's best

One type of lingerie that we've probably all heard of is the push-up bra. The main attraction to this type of bra is its ability to add more cleavage, helping to enhance that feminine look. Best bought

Another popular type of lingerie is a baby doll. A baby doll has a classic style that is perfect for those who want something sexy, but not too risqué. Baby dolls are often available in combination with thongs or g-strings to make a complete sexy outfit.

Garter belts and garter skirts are a really popular choice for their really sexy look. Garters are available as a separate belt, or come attached to skirts or camisoles to make a sexy outfit even more stylish. When attached to a pair of stockings or thigh highs, the look is unmistakably sexy, while still maintaining a level of elegance.

Panties are the essential type of lingerie. Panties are available in your everyday cotton basic, or more risqué types. The most popular kind of panties among men are thongs since they provide a little more revealing look, while also providing a panty that is feminine, girlie, and even playful. A low-rise panty can also provide an excellent look as it hangs slightly lower off the hips than other types of panties.

Getting the size right

Sizing may be a difficult issue. Get it too big and you give the wrong impression, too small and you end up feeling bad yourself. Luckily, many lingerie items are available in One Size Fits All designations, making things a little easier. Generally, most lingerie will only require you to know Small, Medium, and Large, which is a simple way to determine size.

If you can it might be an idea to surreptitiously check your partner’s current size in underwear and use that as a guide. If that is not possible then using her weight/height might be a good option. Most online lingerie stores have an email address for customer service and can provide advice if necessary.

If you are pressed for time or need to make a purchase quickly then your safest bet is for sexy lingerie that is designed to fit within a range of sizes.

Colour and Style

Most lingerie is available in an array of colors and materials to provide you and your partner with the look that will truly heat things up. From cotton, to lace, to leather, there is a material that's right for every preference.

But knowing the types of lingerie available is only part of what you need to know. After all, what's the point of getting your companion a thong if she doesn't even like thongs? The key to knowing what she would like requires a little bit of research on your part. Experimentation with a new look is great but only if that is in keeping with your partner’s overall style and attitude. Getting someone who has never had a thong in her life, for instance, the kind of lingerie you’d see in X-rated films may send the wrong message about the image you have of them and also the expectations of your relationship.

So, as a first step, look at other types of lingerie your partner owns. If she already has a corset, for example, chances are that she is comfortable with that style of garment and would be open to having a similar type of garment, but perhaps in a different colour or material and she certainly would not mind experimenting a little with, for instance, the sexy leather look. If your wife or girlfriend does not have any other lingerie to compare, simply look at the rest of the clothes in her wardrobe. What colours does she like to wear? Does she like loose, lighter clothing, or does she perhaps go for tight, sexy styles? Finding the answers to these questions will help you understand the trends in her wardrobe and surprise her with lingerie that you will both enjoy.

Don't shy away from getting something that looks fun and different. However, make sure you avoid garments that you love but know she won't like or be comfortable in. The beauty of lingerie is that it has the ability to stimulate both you and your partner so by keeping her tastes in mind you are more likely to buy something that is stimulating, pleasing and flattering and it is exactly this combination that makes a woman smile when a man gives her lingerie as a present.

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2 pack long satin chemises
2 pack long satin chemises
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Secrets decadence floral babydoll
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Elizabet bra
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Claudia Pleat Red Bra
Claudia Pleat Red Bra
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Elegant Moments 1413
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Elegant Moments 1444
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Elegant Moments 1417
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Leg Avenue 81142
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Leg Avenue 81131
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Elegant Moments 1432
£23.95


Electric Lingerie EH207
Electric Lingerie EH207
£23.95


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Elegant Moments 1458
£24.95


Elegant Moments 1431
Elegant Moments 1431
£24.95


Il Cairo Stay-up
Il Cairo Stay-up
£25.00


Dark pink Martina babydoll set
Dark pink Martina babydoll set
£25.90


Agent Provocateur Maitresse Gift Set 30ml
Agent Provocateur Maitresse Gift Set 30ml
£25.95


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Elegant Moments 1406
£26.95


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£27.00


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Pussy Deluxe Underwear Sets
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Pussy Deluxe Underwear Sets
£27.90


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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£27.90


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Leg Avenue 81037
£27.95


Electric Lingerie EL401
Electric Lingerie EL401
£29.95


Elegant Moments 7617
Elegant Moments 7617
£29.95


Elegant Moments 5820
Elegant Moments 5820
£30.95


Falling In Love Shaping Suspender
Falling In Love Shaping Suspender
£31.20


Falling In Love Shaping Suspender
Falling In Love Shaping Suspender
£31.20


Electric Lingerie EL426
Electric Lingerie EL426
£31.95


Bisou Bisou Blush Suspender
Bisou Bisou Blush Suspender
£32.00


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Bisou Bisou Bloom Suspender
£32.00


Velvet Kitten Underwear Sets
Velvet Kitten Underwear Sets
£32.90


Leg Avenue 81134
Leg Avenue 81134
£32.95


Agent Provocateur Maitresse Gift Set 100ml
Agent Provocateur Maitresse Gift Set 100ml
£32.99


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Sleep lounge dressing gown, slippers and eye mask gift set
£35.00


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Sleep lounge snowflake embossed dressing gown gift set
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Sleep longe dressing gown slipper and eye mask gift set
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VERTBAUDET Maternity “Before and after” set
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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£35.90


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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£35.90


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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£35.90


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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£35.90


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Vive Maria Underwear Sets
£35.90


Agent Provocateur Maitresse Eau De Parfum 50ml & Seductive Milk Body Wash 100ml
Agent Provocateur Maitresse Eau De Parfum 50ml & Seductive Milk Body Wash 100ml
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Elegant Moments 4855
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Arbrazo Tango Suspender Belt
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Leg Avenue 81096
£42.95


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Leg Avenue 81123
£42.95


Camisole and Shorts Set in Pre-Washed Embroidered Cotton Voi
Camisole and Shorts Set in Pre-Washed Embroidered Cotton Voi
£45.00


Classique Eau de Toilette X Collection 100ml & Miniature Set
Classique Eau de Toilette X Collection 100ml & Miniature Set
£61.20


Reversible Lingerie Set
Reversible Lingerie Set
£65.00


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£65.00