Accessorize your lingerie

It’s easy to think that lingerie is the kind of item of clothing that’s worn just so it can be taken off at the right time. But if you think like that you’re missing the bigger picture.

What you have under your clothes reveals more about you than most things you can say.

Accessorizing your lingerie starts with your make up and hair. Don't think “day at the office” think “passion, seduction, and fantasy” instead and buy a set of lingerie that will show off your hair and be complemented by it in turn.

Planning is key. Just as when you were selecting your sexy lingerie, you must consider what you want to accomplish. Hide it, flaunt it, or pretend you got it. Rhinestone jewellery does wonders for this.

Direct your partner’s gaze. As an example: If you’re wearing a cleavage enhancing bustier, you want your lover’s eyes to start at your face, move to your neck, and follow the line of sight to your cleavage. Rhinestone earrings and a V-shaped rhinestone necklace will accomplish this. The earrings should dangle from the ears and point to the neck. The necklace should drape across the top of the breast accenting the shape and giving definition.

If you want your lover to notice your tight abs, then a bra set and rhinestone belly chain will direct his line of sight and make him wonder what treasures await him.

A rhinestone bracelet will allow you to move his gaze wherever you desire with a simple wave of your hand. Caress your body and watch his eyes follow your hand.

The magic of hosiery. You are probably familiar with fish net stockings, and thigh highs. Have you ever looked at fence net, spider web, or tattoo stockings? The world of hosiery has advanced into a technology of its own. Matching stockings will work in harmony with your ensemble, enhance your legs, and hide flaws.

Sexy lingerie is all about building confidence not putting yourself on trial. You are setting a stage and because you are the scene-writer, props expert and director you have total control of how you look and what’s going to happen.

So, choose your lingerie with care. Experiment and experiment and experiment until you have exactly what you want. Then think about accessorizing it, adding all the finishing touches that put you in control and make each special moment your moment.

This way, whatever you choose to wear, however much you have to spend, when the special moment comes, will work its magic on you and still have the desired effect upon your partner.